Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Principle and Practice

In the past few years I've grown increasingly concerned about the confusion that seems to exist in the minds and hearts of many over the difference between principle and practice. Principles are bedrock, unchangeable anchor points, rooted in Scripture and theologically framed, that provide the paths we need to walk in wisdom. Practice is the application of such principles in various spheres of life, and these, unlike principle, vary from place to place, culture to culture, and time to time.When someone confuses practice and principle they become sectarian legalists, demanding all practices conform to their practices, wrongly imagining that they are pointing people to the unchangeable. In doing so they are sending the message, "If you were a REAL Christian - like me - you'd do it my way."

Let me note some brief examples.

Worship: The principle that we are to worship God in Spirit and Truth is unchangeable; the practice of that worship varies across cultures and churches and times and will continue to do so. When someone confuses practice and principle they become sectarian legalists, demanding all practices conform to their practices. When someone says 'this liturgy' and no other, 'this music' and no other, or 'this amount of time' and no other, they've entered into a realm of sectarianism. That doesn't make all practices valid of course - people and churches can and do invent and practice things in worship that are contrary to principle. But the principles of worship, articulated by and rooted in Scripture, have to be applied in various settings. The arrangement of the furniture, the volume of the sound, the style of the music, the garb of the leaders, and the length of the service are not principle issues but practice issues. Even something one believes is principled - Lord's Day Eucharist using real wine and bread - has to be viewed in terms of recovery and reform, not revolution and demand. We have to teach principles and then learn to apply them in wise practices. That takes time.


Education: The principle is that parents are responsible for the education of their children. HOW they see to that is a matter of practice and it will vary over time (in the child's life) and from place to place. I am deeply alarmed when I hear a parent insist that there is only one possible PRACTICE of education - their way of course - and that those Christians who don't do it their way are deficient in their faith, or worse. Educating at home is one possible practice of the principle of Education. So are Christian day schools. So are co-ops. So are non-Christian state sponsored schools funded by tax dollars. NO practice is free from sin and its consequences and all have their dangers. Its odd to me that some homeschool families, having felt derided and rejected in some church, leave for a more 'home-ed friendly' church and then turn right around and treat contemptibly any family that doesn't educate at home. I've even seen this done among home schoolers over the different approaches to home schooling! The same is true in terms of education philosophy; massive debate takes place over which approach to education is more 'Christian' than another, sometimes leaving faithful Christians in places of aggravated dispute over this as though the subject were as vital as some part of the Nicene Creed.



Courtship and Marriage: The principle that a man shall leave his parents and cleave to his wife is clear; the practice of how that arrangement is made is a matter of practice. There are a host of ways that parents these days assist their children in discovering a person to marry. Some children grow and move away from home, marrying much later and without as much reference to the parents back home. Insisting that one particular approach is more Biblical than another on this matter is folly. One cannot simply lay the world of the Bible (worlds!) across our landscape and expect it to fit without some bumps and air pockets. Typically gals don't marry in their early teens now (how many sermons have you heard mentioning Mary's age at the time of Gabriel's visitation?), and typically people then did not travel as far or as frequently as we do, or pursue the same educational qualifications for professional life. Don't fall into the trap of thinking that there is only one way that God can arrange a marriage - he's the One, after all, who is the author of married life.



I could mention others, but I'll leave it there for now. You get the idea. There are matters of 'first importance' (1 Corinthians 15:1ff), matters of principle that cannot and must not be overthrown and which are the basis of the Christian community. Secondary issues are just that and if one makes them primary, one is lighting the fuse for sectarian division rooted in arrogant presumption. Humble love brothers and sisters, humble love is the way to approach all the secondary issues. The old proverb remains true: "In essentials, unity; in non-essentials, liberty; in all things, charity."

11 comments:

Brett R. said...

Great to see you blogging again!

Yvonne Johnson said...

Reading this was like hearing my favorite classic rock song come on the radio and cranking it to full volume. Your words are so very true. My heart screams "Say it louder brother! Don't stop saying it!" Lord, what we need most is love around these church walls. How can we reach out to the unbelievers when the Christians are hurting eachother so unbelievably bad. We empty eachother out and have nothing left to give. Bless you David for seeing it and saying it. Now pray for me as I continue to be refined into a kinder Christian.

Don Stroud said...

Perhaps an appropriate application of Romans 8:1, especially when practice begins to cloud principle.

Jim Bob Howard said...

I applaud the principle of your post and agree that judging others is certainly a misguided practice.

I don't mind others judging me for how I practice principles. And if they want to speak the truth in love to me on how my practice might be against biblical principles, I'll be thankful for the sharpening. That's called accountability.

But, our experience has often been more like this:

Me: "I love homeschooling my children."
Other: "You're judging me for not doing so."

Our response depends, of course, on the source. To a brother or sister, something along the lines of: "Who am I to judge another man's servant?"

But sounds more like, "I do not fault anyone for the educational choices they make. This is what's right for my family."

We do delight (and struggle) to educate our children at home and love to recognize publicly the blessings we enjoy because of our practice. Our vocal (or Facebook) delight is not intended to judge anyone whose practice is different.

I know that your post wasn't aimed at the Howards (I hope), but as homeschoolers (and pursuers of courtship for our children) we did feel called out. And yet, many times we have had people come down on us for judging them, when we've said nothing of the sort. Even my (or Amy's) response similar to the above didn't quell their feeling judged.

I think an encouragement to not assume judgment from others simply because they choose a different practice might also be helpful.

Cathy Scott said...

Very thought-provoking. I know I have judged others' choices and have had my own choices judged. But if we focus on the underlying principle, we are free to share our doubts and struggles and be supported by our brothers and sisters. So if a homeschool teacher is doubting herself, she can share those doubts and be encouraged in her calling. And if a family is experiencing difficulties with the public schools, they can share those and receive encouragement rather than being told to get their kids out of an ungodly school. And we are free to rejoice with each other in our successes without putting expectations on anyone else that our way is the only way.

David Filson said...

Excellent post! Great pastoral sensitivity. So good to see your sanctified sagacity back in the blogosphere.

Don Stroud said...

Regarding principle in discipling/educating our children, it may be worthwhile reviewing the vows we as parents and as a congregation make before God and each other when a child is baptized.
http://www.pcaac.org/Web%20version%202011%20Reprint%20ALL.pdf

Ricardo Avila sr. said...

Thank you Pastor Cassidy. I needed t read your blog. It spoke to my heart and the sins that beset me daily at work as I struggle to love other Christians, as I struggle to love my son and daughter, and as I contemplate (God willing one day) getting married again. Praise God for His wisdom. Soli Deo Gloria.

DP Cassidy said...

Don - excellent! Jim Bob - all well said and you know I was NOT calling you out - you n yours are the pictures of grace and love. Cathy - wise words; thanks! Ricardo - will pray for you.

DP Cassidy said...

David - you may be the only person on the planet who thinks I am both sensitive and sagacious.

Love,

The Bull Wandering the China Shop Aisles

Jenny Hodges said...

I feel preemptively defended since I really do not enjoy homeschooling on much of any level--ok, that random out of the ordinary romantic moment where everything is going so right is nice. :) Seriously, I'm out there about my feelings on the matter and haven't felt a whiff of judgment. Maybe it's because I'm so obnoxious everyone figures what's the use. I'm kicking my kids to a private school curb as fast as possible. Marriage Philosophy:" Jon and I have been campaigning for our kids to elope--in their late 20's at the earliest (well, that part is my idea). And we highly recommend moving to another state away from both sets of parents while you leave and cleave. Call us when you've been to the courthouse--should you choose to get a state issued permission slip--and we'll write you a check for the wedding budget amount." As to worship styles, THANK YOU (but Redeemer style worship is the greatest)..... LOL!!! :) Great, great post. And a little dangerous, frankly. Stay dangerous. ~Jenny